Therapy for Adolescents
WHO I HELP
For youth between 13-18 years of age
Is your teen suddenly withdrawing and disconnecting in way that seems more the just “being a teenager”? Are you concerned about them experimenting with substances, or maybe more than experimenting? Do they struggle to make friends, or are constantly finding friends who you worry may not be the best influence? Or maybe their attendance or grades have dropped, or they have stopped going to school completely? When teens experience anxiety, depression, grief, or struggle to cope with stress and life transitions, they may not verbally tell you they are struggling—but they will show you.
Being worried about your child’s wellbeing and not knowing how to help them is agonizing. Getting them connected with an adult they can trust (and who you trust to guide them back to you as they need it) can offer relief to both teens and parents.
You can read more about my experience working with teen and families in the About Me section.
Anxiety & Worry
The world today is full of pressures, even for teens. Social, academic and familial—not to mention that whole becoming an adult thing. Anxiety can help us prepare for the future and point us towards things that matter in life, but it can also take over. When that happens, our mind gets stuck in the past and/or future, making it hard to the things that feel important in the present.
Family and Life Transitions
As hard as parents work to provide consistency for their kids, change is inevitable. Parents divorce, loved ones pass away, families need to move. When those changes coalesce during adolescence, it can make the transition to adulthood all the more difficult—for teens and their family members.
Depression
Substance Use & Misuse
Like adults, most teens use substances as a way to cope with some internal pain. Though the risks for teens are much higher due to a still developing brain and body, research also shows that their path to recovery looks different. If your teen is using substances beyond developmentally ‘normal’ experimentation (don’t worry, I’ll assess for this), family therapy will likely be the most effective approach.
School Refusal
Kids don’t need their parents to have all the answers, they just need to know you’ll be with them while you figure it out, together.
WHAT I HELP WITH
Adolescence is a stage of development marked by a withdrawal from parents/caregivers, and a deep need for connection through peer relationships. But sometimes the support of a caring adult can be a bridge to get them through a difficult season, and even a bridge back to the adults in their lives who care.
Trauma & PTSD
The developmental stage someone is in when a trauma occurred impacts how they make sense of it. For children this often means viewing themselves as the source of their deepest pains. This is protective in the short term, but unaddressed it can lead to persistent feelings of guilt, anxiety and fear later in life.
Fluctuating Moods
Is it normal adolescence or is it something else? Maybe you are seeing your kid suffer from the outside, unsure of how to help (or how to get them to let you help); or maybe their moods escalate into arguments and leave you feeling like a punching bag for their feelings. Teens are moody, sure—but if your gut is telling you they might need help, trust it.
HOW I HELP
I use approaches that allow us to connect with experiences beyond what we can verbally communicate, and to see all parts of ourselves within the larger context(s) that shaped them.